{"id":376,"date":"2017-04-22T20:12:22","date_gmt":"2017-04-22T20:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/slavkasekulic.from.hr\/?p=376"},"modified":"2017-05-28T20:18:08","modified_gmt":"2017-05-28T20:18:08","slug":"3-moc-razmisljanja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/slavkasekulic.from.hr\/?p=376","title":{"rendered":"3: Mo\u0107 razmi\u0161ljanja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Razvijanje vje\u0161tine razmi\u0161ljanja i rje\u0161avanja problema.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tijekom ove faze dijete razvija svoje sposobnosti razmi\u0161ljanja. Ho\u0107e razmi\u0161ljati za sebe i donositi vlastite odluke. U\u010di rje\u0161avati vlastite probleme. Na\u0161a budu\u0107a sposobnost razmi\u0161ljanja ovisi o tome kako se razvijamo u ovoj fazi. Primjerice, pretjerano kontrolirano dijete, gdje odrasli donose ve\u0107inu odluka za njega, u odrasloj dobi mo\u017ee imati pote\u0161ko\u0107a pri dono\u0161enju vlastitih odluka. U ovoj fazi dijete se \u017eeli odvojiti od roditelja i biti neovisno. U cilju toga djeca moraju nau\u010diti razmi\u0161ljati i rje\u0161avati probleme. U\u010denje izra\u017eavanja osje\u0107aja je jako va\u017eno. To su glavne zada\u0107e ove faze.<br \/>\nDijete u\u010di savladavati vlastita ograni\u010denja i ograni\u010denja koja su nametnuta od okoline. Protivi se nametnutim idejama , kontroli i odlukama. Faza u kojoj je ne i ne\u0107u omiljena rije\u010d, te i\u0161\u010dekivanje da li okolina vjeruje i podr\u017eava njegove sposobnosti i razmi\u0161ljanja. Faza kada \u0107e dijete tra\u017eiti mi\u0161ljenje od drugih a onda \u0107e biti ljutito kada mu se mi\u0161ljenje ka\u017ee. To je faza u kojem dijete testira, gura, uspostavlja vlastite granice kroz \u201cne\u201c u cilju osamostaljenja. \u017deli se odvojiti biti samostalno u isto vrijeme \u017eeli biti podr\u017eano i voljeno. Kroz to \u017eeli utvrditi koliko je va\u017eno svojoj okolini, \u0161to spada u razvojni zadatak ove faze.<\/p>\n<p>Ako nam u djetinjstvu nije bilo dopu\u0161teno da razvijamo vje\u0161tinu razmi\u0161ljanja i rje\u0161avanja problema, mo\u017eda \u0107e nam u kasnijem \u017eivotu biti te\u0161ko stvarati vlastita mi\u0161ljenja ili rje\u0161avati vlastite probleme. 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